As those of you who have followed this blog for a while probably know by now, we have a pretty unconventional family. This goes way beyond being a two mom household; while we chose to use an anonymous donor when we decided to have kids, we've been very open to the idea of meeting and getting to know the other parents who have chosen to use the same anonymous donor. So, one of the first things we did, even before Hallie and Olivia's birth, was join the Donor Sibling Registry, where we discovered that others who had also used our girls' donor (henceforth '1876') had already established a presence. We quickly found out that there was also a Yahoo group dedicated to our families and we joined that, too. Over the past three years we've corresponded and shared pictures with the other parents who have chosen to identify themselves to the group and this is how we've gotten to be such close friends with our girls' big brother, Jake, and his lovely mom, Gina. Jake and Gina have gotten to meet another brother in Florida and a few of the other kids and their parents have met up in various places.
This past spring, several of us decided to try to get together on a bigger scale. It would have been really hard to get everyone together in one place since we're all spread out (from my recollection, there are kids in Oklahoma, Texas, Iowa, Florida, New Jersey, Missouri, Pennsylvania, North Carolina, Virginia, Maryland, and Puerto Rico. I am probably leaving some out, too). A couple of the Midwestern and Southwestern families were planning on heading East for vacation and so we settled on the Washington DC suburbs, which was convenient to a good number of us East Coasters and Mid-Atlantic types. And, to make it possible for as many as we could to attend, we chose one of the summer's long weekends. This made our 4th of July celebration extra special this year.
On Friday the 3rd, Gina, her mom, and Jake headed down our way in a rental vehicle (since we needed to accommodate three car seats, four adults, tons of clothing and toys, and an ice chest full of goat milk products for Hallie) and we all piled in and had a great drive down to Maryland. The kids had a fabulous ride and Hallie adored sitting next to her big brother. The traffic on the way down wasn't terrible, either, which made up for the rental car SNAFU that Gina had experienced earlier in the day (when the rental car company down by them gave her a way-too-small vehicle. They ended up locating an adequately-sized alternative at the Philly airport but had to drive up here, figure out where to leave their car, and then pick us up).
Anyway, the kids would have been thrilled just at the prospect of racing up and down corridors, running in and out of one another's room, and jumping on the bed (a la Five Little Monkeys).
But we had a whole lot more fun planned for the weekend.
Eight 1876ers, one 1876er's sibling from another donor (yes, I know that's confusing...sorry, but our family really is pretty cutting edge), and Olivia, in spirit, spent the better part of Saturday gathered at Ben's house for a sibling meet-up of what seemed like epic proportions. As one of the moms put it, "Thank god there aren't 1876 of 'em."
Gina, Jake's mom, had fabulous t-shirts made up for the event:
And one of Jessica:
While she was a bit too young for the tire swing, Lea enjoyed some swinging of her own, courtesy of Mommy:
Lea got a lot of holding and loving time from everyone that day:
Alyssa, in particular, thought that it was way cool that she--the oldest girl there--got to hold the littlest girl. Here she's getting some help from her sister, Jess.
While all the 1876ers look a lot like their birth moms, they also look a lot like one another. They seem to fit into two types--the blonde-haired 1876ers (Ben, Asher, Jess, and Ellie) and the brown-haired ones (Jonah, Jake, and Hallie). I'm not sure which group Lea belongs to, yet, since she kind of doesn't really have a lot of hair. But even though they may have different hair color, there's definitely a family resemblance between these kids:
Anyway, a great time was had by all and we were thrilled to have been able to participate. Hallie's big smooch with Ben at breakfast the next day says it all: we are grateful that Rebecca and Claire opened their home to us and that we had a chance to meet a good portion of the rest of our far-flung family. We hope to do this again some time soon!
More posts to come about preschool and our weekend trip to New York. But for those of you who tune in to see what our tally is of days without spew, we're now up to 136. That's more than double where we were at this time last year!